This has been quite an experience for two childless by choice free spirits! Gideon is now six months old. What fun it has been to see the changes that occur in six short months! Since we did not have children we really have not been part of that. Sure, we saw other people's babies, but we didn't see them even monthly all of the time. To see a baby a couple of times a week is amazing!
Gideon is now eating rice cereal, carrots and peas. I have fed him all of those and it is a joyful experience. How someone can get so excited about mashed up peas is puzzling...but I enjoy seeing such pure, uncomplicated pleasure.
He can also roll over from front to back and keep rolling. No more leaving the room when he is on floor. He is extremely interested in trying to hoist himself up. Soon, he will be crawling and then this Grandma will be in for a lot more exercise every time she babysits. I look forward to it, yet I hate seeing him leave that precious infant stage.
Gideon is teething. I let him chew on my finger and it feels like there are several possible teeth coming, even in the back. His mom says they got several teeth at once, so maybe that is what is going on here. He can get a bit testy when his teeth are bothering him. I call it "throwing an Appleton". I don't know how many of you remember the cartoon Tom Terrific. Crabby Appleton was the villian. For some reason I LOVED Crabby Appleton. I think it was because he was so expressive. Gideon is not nearly as crabby as I would think a teething baby would be. Maybe that is yet to come.
Gampa Dave is a favorite of Gideon's. How he smiles and laughs when Gampa plays with him. When Dave is in the room, Gideon's has eyes only for him. I am glad. I know how much Dave loves him, and he does not get to see him as much as I do.
I babysit every Friday and sometimes other days or nights. We usually get to see him at least two times a week. I am trying to figure out how to kidnap him, but I am afraid Jen and Shon would know to check our house first. Sigh.
Besides, it is nice not to have the obligations, just the pleasures. What fun it is to finally get to watch a person develop in all of their stages, but not have the constant responsibility or finanical obligations. We can jump in the car and go places, sleep as late as we want; not worry as much as a parent. Still, I now think about things that might be a danger to him. Loving a child definitely changes your perspective on everything.
Last Friday Gideon was showing me that he had discovered his tongue (photo is not Gideon). He was proud to show it and would stick it out and then laugh. I then would say "Your tongue! Oh, look, Gideon's tongue!" After a while, I asked "Show me your tongue." He did. I tried several times and he would show it. A new trick, compliments of Gamma Caddy and Gideon.
My nicknames for him are Gumdrop and Gid Kid. I try to call him Gumdrop as much as possible because I know that soon enough he will rebel against that name, demanding that I stop calling him that. Then it will be only a happy memory of baby times.
Babies. Aren't they something? We used to roll our eyes whenever people went on and on about them...and now we know. Still glad we did not have them, but damn. Babies. Yeah, they are something special. I have a feeling Gideion will be very special to us his whole life. And, even when he is 30, he will still be my Gumdrop. I just won't tell him to his face.